At first when I first started to work with people who clutter I could not figure out why the over-collecting, saving and churning behaviors were so strong and guarded, by people who do this self defeating and isolating behavior, until I realized it is because their brain system may activate so differently than people who do not do the over-collecting, saving and churning behaviors. The people who have these obsessive, time consuming behaviors generally are most annoying to family, friends and neighbors. But I want to remind you about having unconditional regard and respect for every human. I also realized that the over-collectors, that lack insight, generally seem unaffected and proud of their large lots of stuff but are sensitive to the wrath and push they take from others.
I have talked to hundreds of people in the last five years that are very protective of their collected property. They love, revel over, and fiercely protect what they have collected. They talk about what they own with pride and accomplishment, actively move it around and around into large piles of mess and muster, leading the rest of organized folks to think they obviously have a greater and darker force against ceasing and calming the fervent activity. But for the collector they admire and believe it is an achievement to have so much, no matter how it is stored. Much like people collecting things, animal hoarding of food, and shelter materials result in the animal feeling happy about their collection in relationship to an accomplishment for survival. Yet what they collect is about true survival. People collect items that will never really help them survive, but they believe there is a connection between objects and survival. People who over-collect, save and churn have such an intense relationship to their belongings that it seems to be connected to survivorship. One woman recently stated "if I don't keep all of my things here I may end up in the streets or dead". She equated the brood of belongings with survival.
To understand if you, a loved one or friend actually meets criteria for a "Hoarding Disorder" the information below may help.
There now is an actual diagnosis of "Hoarding Disorder" and the criteria is listed in the DSM-5 (American Psychiatric Association, in press) as:
A. Persistent difficulty discarding or parting with possessions, regardless of the value others may attribute to these possessions.
B. This difficulty is because of strong urges to save items and/or distress associated with discarding.
C. The symptoms result in the accumulation of a large number of possessions that fill up and clutter active living areas of the home or workplace to the extent that their intended use is no longer possible. If all living areas are uncluttered, it is only because of the interventions of third parties (e.g., family members, cleaners, authorities).
D. The symptoms cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning (including maintaining a safe environment for self and others).
E. The hoarding symptoms are not due to a general medical condition (e.g., brain injury, cerebrovascular disease).
F. The hoarding symptoms are not restricted to the symptoms of another mental disorder (e.g., hoarding due to obsessions in obsessive–compulsive disorder, decreased energy in major depressive disorder, delusions in schizophrenia or another psychotic disorder, cognitive deficits in dementia, restricted interests in autism spectrum disorder, food storing in Prader–Willis Syndrome).
Specify if with excessive acquisition: If symptoms are accompanied by excessive collecting or buying or stealing of items that are not needed or for which there is no available space.
Specify whether hoarding beliefs and behaviors are currently characterized by
Good or fair insight
Recognizes that hoarding-related beliefs and behaviors (pertaining to difficulty discarding items, clutter, or excessive acquisition) are problematic.
Poor insight: Mostly convinced that hoarding-related beliefs and behaviors (pertaining to difficulty discarding items, clutter, or excessive acquisition) are not problematic despite evidence to the contrary.
Absent insight: Completely convinced that hoarding-related beliefs and behaviors (pertaining to difficulty discarding items, clutter, or excess.
The above list of symptoms for most of us sound exhausting and fruitless. The fact is it takes a lot of energy, sweat and worry to create huge messes, stacking and stuffing of items, dragged in from all over, with some paranoid ideation that someone wants the stuff, and an inability to stop the behaviors until threatened, dragged out and or fined by local government. It must be somewhat disturbing for a person who has a love of stuff to have others reminding them that it is a "disorder". It must create deep unhappiness that the rest of the world, despises their clutter. It is a constant war against the clutterers and non-clutterers. But who is correct? I tend to love order and cleanliness, but others tend to love piles and endless mounds of stuff. Is it okay for Social Workers, Therapists, Government and Psychologists to say what is "normal" when it comes to clutter? And how did I happen to be part of this world? Why me? Why am I so interested in "fixing" these behaviors in people who seem to have so much enjoyment from their stuff? Why do any of us care if someone else wants to live in clutter?
Who would have thought, when I retired from Social Work and doing therapy that helping people never ends? But alas why did my niche become helping people get organized? I was not always the most organized person myself. I had and still have a propensity to pile and stuff "stuff" here and there. I throw clothes down on a chair until I realize I want to hang them up or have that closet high mound pile high. I have the occasional ADC (attention deficit challenge) of looking for misplaced items, my keys, bills, phone numbers and glasses. Why am I the organizer of the disorganized? Why do I or the organizers I work with care if people want to make a big mess and admire it?
Well, I think insight into human nature, coupled with an intense desire to help people, and an ability to stay focused and organized better than most qualifies a Professional Organizer. I and my team also have a love of decorating and making things beautiful in any space we enter. We can see that any room no matter what mess can be wonderful and functional, just as there is always sun above the clouds. Professional Organizing services are a great fit for the immensely disorganized crowd of folks out there, as long as they let them in. Also the best organizers have the ability to see the big picture and the small details to bring a real mess into long-term clarity.
But again why is it important to invade a clutter bugs world and insist they become organized? The number one reason is safety. There are safety codes developed by cities, the fire department and neighborhoods that realize that hoards of stuff can be deadly. We all have heard the stories of people burning up in their own demise. The homes I have been in where crazy amounts of random stuff, piled as high as the ceiling and wide as the house, without even a path to walk through is not only sad, but an intense fire hazard. Homes known to the fire departments across the world, that have immense clutter, are avoided during fire emergencies. The fire department keeps track of such homes and they know that it is a death trap. Fire personnel will not go in when there is a fire, if it is that dangerous. Adult protective services will remove elderly people who create mausoleums in their houses due to hazardous falls and dangers. Some of the safety hazards of clutter are:
infectious disease, fire, rodents, falls, cuts, bruises, breathing in unhealthy dust, not being able to access life sustaining medications and or food or water. The criteria for a well kept home are according to the L.A. County DMH Hoarding Task Force L.A. Fire Code Safety & Evacuation Standards
- FrontDoor: Mustopenfully to allow emergency technicians and stretchers inside the home.
- Aisles to all rooms: 3 foot clearance,measured with yardstick.4 feet to allow EMT’sto access to be on one of both sides of the stretcher during emergencies and not to fall down. Reason: Firefighters in full gear & stretcher to access all rooms, front and back door, hallways, bedrooms, kitchen and bathroom.
- Stacks: Under 3 feet high of boxes, clutter,etc on the floor.
- Ceiling clearance = 2 feet: Nothing should be stacked on top of bookcases.
Reason: To prevent movement/falling during earthquakes
- Bookcases:tall furniture,armoires bolted to the wallw/L-brackets.
Reason: Safety, earthquake protection and disaster preparedness.
- All exits must open fully. This means front and back doors can open wide enough for the
EMT’s to enter and exit with your loved one on their stretcher.
- Windows:need to be clear of stacked boxes to permit healthy room ventilation.
- Weight load concerns: Multi-story buildings are not prepared for unusually large weight loads in the middle of the room in apartments above the 1st floor.
- Electrical Outlets: should only have 3 or 6 plugs in use, according to the outlet’s capacity.
Clearance should be 1 foot at each outlet.
Reason: electrical fires occur from overloaded circuits where too many appliances plugged into overworked outlets can;t safely handle the excess draw of electricity requested.
- No flammable liquids in the home: such as gasoline, kerosene, etc. (Lighter fluid is ok) Reason: reduce the need for a fire department visit.
12. No more pets than can be quickly evacuated in an emergency situation by the owner. Reason: In a fire, emergency responders won’t have much time looking for too many pets.
13. Working plumbing: toilets, sinks, tub, hot and cold running water.
14. Working electrical appliances: stoves, refrigerators, heaters, etc.
Reason: CA Health & Safety Code Section 17920.3 concerns any part of a home where any condition exists that endangers the life, limb, health, property, safety or welfare of the public or occupants becomes a substandard building. This section lists about 30 specific terms.
15. Heaters: Plug in units are illegal gas fire hazards.
I would add no random piles of items in corners, under the bed, in the oven or stove, in rafters or shelves of the garage, no boxes of random items and papers where unknown items are even if they are stacked 3 feet high and no large collections of unknown items and or glass objects and unknown fluids in glass or plastic, no dusty areas combined with hair and materials on or in lighting fixtures, no old hair and or makeup products, or old paint or cleaners products, old medications and anything else that can be a potential for danger.
So to conclude getting organized is not for everyone, but anyone can be organized when they are ready, or when boundaries are set for those that are unsafe.
Marla Stone, MSW, Professional Organizer, Lifestyle Coach, Decor and Feng Shui Specialist, Author and Speaker
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