Lots of Tips and Suggestions From Life Organizer Marla Stone, MSW for 2021
Shop Green, and recycle. It is better for the planet. You can find most of what you want in Thrift Stores, consignment or on-line sales groups.
Sell, drop off or barter with the stuff you don’t want.
It is better to give than receive. Don’t forget that.
Go to Therapy and or Get a Life Coach. Two heads are better than one head.
Stop blaming others or past situations and stay in the NOW, and the KNOW
You cannot change the past, but you can heal it.
Your present self, health, and thoughts are the home where you live. It is your consciousness that is your home.
Get organized; it will not only clear your space; it will clear your mind. Mind Clutter is a vicious cycle. Cluttered mind,cluttered space, cluttered mind, cluttered space.
Get along better with yourself and you will see magic form in all of your relationships
If you disagree with another person, there is a way to resolve it without getting steamed up. Sharing your feelings and validating the other person for their feelings will settle down a negative situation.
If you have a difficult problem with yourself, thereare traditionally two opposing aspects of creating self fighting. Realize fighting with yourself is futile.
Share your feelings with yourself and validate yourself. EX: I feel misunderstood, bullied, manipulated, and Iam a strong and capable person who willcompromise and be flexible.
If you are upset with someone or something and have negative things to say, take that finger and point it towards yourself. Usually, if you can see the negative in someone else, it is because that trait is in you
Check yourself to see if you meet criteria for a personality disorder
Meet with friends and family as much as possible, as long as they are supportive. People closest to you, your support system, usually know you better than you know yourself. If you are isolating, get a mental health checkup.
Identify toxic people who put you down, create chaos, and who have issues with greed, vanity, anger, lust, or unhealthy boundaries.
Have some spiritual connection, and practice being spiritual regularly in life. If you are confused about your belief system, talk it out with someone until you get it straight. Being uncertain about whether there is a God and or a Higher Power is like living in limbo. Until you get some clear ideas about why and how we are here on this planet, living in a body, you will unlikely be clear about anything else.
Have one day per week with only positive thoughts. Every time you think negatively, tap yourself on the shoulder and say “stop,” and resume thinking positively by replacing the negative thought with an opposite positive thought. So if you say to yourself, “oh, I’m so stupid,” replace it with “I’m a super smart and capable person”. You will be amazed at how negative self-talk can bring down your ego system, causing anxiety and hostility towards self and others, and how positive self-talk will raise yourself-esteem.
Have an excellent 2021
Marla Stone, MSW is a Professional Organizer/Lifestyle Coach, Decor, and Feng Shui Specialist. www.i-deal-lifestyle.com
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Marla is known as the Declutter Your Strategy™ expert. Marla earned her BA in Psychology and a Master's in Social Work and is the founder of I-Deal-Lifestyle Inc., A Strategy Improvement Company. Services include Decluttering, Training & Development and Coaching. Marla is also the Author of The Clutter Remedy: A Guide To Getting Organized For Those Who Love Their Stuff